The
significant advantage to open adoption is that the Birth Mother
has some say in who adopts her baby. If a child knows that their
adopted family was their Birth Mother’s choice for them,
it may help them to accept that choice more readily during those
years when they are questioning the adoption.
It could be extremely difficult in this day and age to keep the
fact that a child is adopted from them their whole life, and even
if this is attempted, how will they eventually feel about it if
they were to ever find out? It is generally agreed that being open
with a child about their adoption is the best course, and how much
easier is this to do if the adoptive parents have some information
about the Birth Mother?
Choosing Open or Closed Adoption is strictly the personal choice
of the Birth Mother. For a Birth Mother to know that she has some
choice in who will raise her child and that adoption does not necessarily
have to mean that the child will disappear from her forever, makes
Open Adoption a much more appealing choice.
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